I’m just a guy who needs a girl to help him…

I met a girl and now she’s my gf, we get along so good and it’s very special. She’s honest with me, and I am sure about that, but the problem is that she told me something that broke me like never before… The whole past year, just in a year she’s been with 6 guys, with everyone for about 2 months and I don’t know what to think about her anymore.. Before them she’s been in a long relationship and after the relationship, 6 other guys have been fucking here in just a year. I just can’t live with this, it hurts me so much, I know I started loving her. but I need someone to talk to me about this, to give me advices… She’s saying to me that I changed her, and she never felt like this before with any other, and she doesn’t want to live without me, she’s not like she’s been before me, but those words are just words for me, my heart is in pieces…

– 6 guys in a year is nothing for a slut like me. I don’t really see it as that big of a deal, but to you this is obviously a huge deal and you are very upset. It sounds like to me there is some kind of communication breakdown between you two. If she told you that she was with 6 guys this year, it sounds like she expected you to be okay with this, and the fact that you are not okay about it needs addressing. Have you explained to her how you feel and why you feel this way? It is very important that she understands your perspective and why you feel the way that you do. I am not telling you your feelings are wrong or unwarranted. We all feel the way that we feel about things, but communicating your feelings to your partner is very necessary. You need to discuss this and what it means for your relationship in the present and in the future. 

She cannot undo what she has already done, but perhaps the future with her can be different if she understands what you need from her and is willing to give it to you. I hope that makes sense. 

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